
Queerness may be more visible in culture right now, but that doesn’t mean every part of it feels safe to acknowledge – sometimes not even to yourself, let alone at work or with your family.
Reflections from your life when your queerness spoke to you return again and again, but to explore them aloud feels just as off-limits, especially when the questions inside are contradictory and confusing.
And maybe at this age, it feels too late to even start thinking about addressing the authenticity of your gender and sexuality at all.
You worry about unpacking the layers of your sexuality with others. What if they instantly validate you?
In therapy with me, truly, all parts of this journey are welcome.
Inevitably, we will have doubts, desires, fears, judgments, and stigmas against queerness in your process. The way to move through them is to explore them!
You want to live in alignment with your truest self.
But right now it feels totally overwhelming.
What will you tell people? And what if you’re wrong?
These aren’t small questions.
And you shouldn’t have to figure them out alone.
The day will come when these painful questions will totally subside. You can live with the certainty of who you are, which you take for granted.
Clarity is inevitable when we work on it as a team.
Let’s move through this together.
Reach out for a free consultation, and let’s talk.
This is your identity. You get to explore it on your terms.

You were not made to endure the moments of struggle, grief, and pain alone.
When we get back alongside one another, we can also grow our joy, our aliveness, and our connection. That’s the work, and it’s the part I love most.
I see clients in person in Brooklyn and Manhattan, and online. If any of this sounded like your life, I’d be glad to talk.
Reach out to schedule your free 20-minute consultation.
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